Commitment is what transforms a promise into a reality.
The tarot card of the day is The Hierophant.
Getting the Hierophant means looking at how you see commitment in your life. It’s the card that talks about commitment.
In your relationships, you have to be willing to put your heart and soul to make it work. If you’re single, it’s asking you to ask yourself if you’re already to commit for a love that is secure and stable awaits you.
Security in your relationship depends on commitment
These days, it’s easy to be in a relationship without really thinking about commitment. When you get the Hierophant, it’s asking you to look at your personal value for commitment and how it plays out in your relationship.
Commitment is nothing more than two people’s desire to stay together. It is part of the relationship that makes it safe and secure for couples to talk about their feelings, and their desires.
The first time you start out in a relationship, you might not be able to commit right away. As long as you're in love, it takes a long time to build trust and strengthen your relationship with each other. But, if you want to have a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship, you need to be committed to keep the flame alive.
Getting this card, is a good omen that your relationship is about to enter a new higher level. Your person could be the one could end up with. However, you need to ask yourself, are you ready? Are you willing to make the work? Are you ready to commit and put a little extra effort?
If you don't know how to stay committed in a relationship and don't know where to start, you can start by writing a commitment statement. A commitment statement explains why the connection is important and what the goals are for it. It may also have rules and boundaries that make the partnership stronger and make the couple feel safe.
Just for today, write that commitment statement for your partner. Much better if you find the perfect moment to share it with them.
Sometimes, if you want your partner to be committed, you have to take the first step yourself. Compromise doesn't mean giving up your freedom or cutting off your individuality. Instead, it shows that you are willing to put your relationship above your own needs.
Overcoming the fear of commitment
If you’re single, this card is telling you that you already have the partner of your dreams that you could have a long and stable relationship. But you could also have a fear that is stopping you from having so.
It's not easy to get over your fear of commitment. Nothing that makes you look inside yourself is. When emotions are of a romantic nature, it can be hard to deal with them. However, it is possible to overcome this.
The first step in overcoming this is knowing why you are having this feeling. Then when you already know why you're feeling the way you do. Then, it's time to look at that problem directly and face it head on. That said, if you do decide to let other people into your life, do not become a codependent person! Do not depend on them to make you happy.
First, you have to love yourself. Being in love doesn't mean being locked up. It's important to find a relationship where you can be yourself and give your partner the same freedom. Do not be possessive, because it is only a way to get into trouble with your feelings and not be happy.