It's time to address dysfunctional relationships.
The tarot card of the day is the Ten of Cups Reversed.
The joyous family emanates love and happiness. Their outstretched arms, playful children, and the family house perched on the hill depict a fulfilling love story. A tranquil landscape with flowing water and clear blue skies enhance their perfect lives.
Receiving comfort, security, and understanding from family members is something to be cherished. Yet, the appearance of good family life is often a facade.
A busy lifestyle full of work demands, social obligations, and family needs means those we assume will always support us become neglected. This demanding life has caused a disconnect between you and your loved ones.
The Ten of Cups reversed shows the image of content relationships is false. Instead, your close connections are cracking under pressure or withering from your lack of attention.
Disharmony in relationships is a sign to readjust your attitude and realign your commitments. However, pretending to be alright is not sustainable and further damages your emotional core.
Now is an opportunity to come together with the crucial people in your life. Work on reviving the love between you. Repairing broken relationships will enhance honesty and trust, making them stronger and more rewarding.
Relieve Your Anxiety
Any efforts to fix connections with those you love must start with self-reflection. Your close ties to essential people have faltered. While you may blame them exclusively, it is crucial to address your role in the breakdown of relations.
Underlying your emotions is a bed of anxiety. Yet, deep down, you believe the image of the Ten of Cups is worth aspiring to even though it seems like an unattainable fairytale. But you pollute the water of your relationships with the anxious energy you bring to them.
It is time to dig into what personal issues are causing tension, distrust, and aggression from those around you. Are you financially stressed? Are you struggling with balancing work demands against other aspects of your life? Has someone let you down that you cannot forgive?
While you may feel far from healing your close relationships, the Ten of Cups, reversed, gives you a signal to try again. Tap into what elements of those around you you feel thankful about. Even if you are angry or hurt, try to identify aspects of positivity.
You must make an opening in your life for healing. Create time and space for your own needs and repair the knots of anxiety, frustration, and insecurity eating away at your wellbeing. Finding a new balance in your life will provide a solid basis to connect with others.
There is an opportunity for healing and repair. Still, you will not see this magic if you are angry, irritated, or anxious. So, stop fostering stress, break out of your habits, and let go of preconceived notions.
Great things start to happen in your life once you let this magic work in you. You might need to shift your viewpoint to witness this energy shift. It is ready to be harnessed into nourishing the unique connections and ever-lasting love you have been gifted.
Adjust Your Expressions of Love
The Ten of Cups amplifies emotional cracks in your relationships. These struggles will pass. A crucial shift will occur by reshaping your emotional balance and casting a new perspective on your connections.
Firstly, throw away false expectations. These add pressure to your interactions because you are not allowing others to be their authentic selves.
Let go of the facade of what love looks like and allow your loved ones the freedom to express themselves.
Nourish the feelings and emotions of others as you would water and tend a garden.
Fertilize your interactions with expressions of genuine love, honest confessions, and care. These actions will expedite healing and enrich your life with abundant love, joy, and gratitude.
Once you have relaxed your expectations, introduce new systems of expressing love. Instead of repeating actions to appear connected, delve into the hearts of those you care about.
Create meaningful eye contact and tactile connections. Truly listen to them and explore their feelings without judgment.