It is not easy to love with your whole soul, and sometimes it is painful, but it is all a part of God’s plan.

I know you’re tired. You’re exhausted from loving everyone unconditionally while you feel like you’re gaining very little in return. Fear not; the love you share to others will come back to you, you simply must readjust your perspective before you see it.

Not everyone is going to express their love in the physical realm the same way that you do. Their intentions may be as pure as yours, but their expression will vary because they are a unique individual, just like you.

It’s Not About The Return

Unconditional love is never transactional. Godly love is never transactional. I rarely, if ever, get anything in return for loving my children with all the power I can muster— and I don’t want to get anything in return, either.

Instead, my focus is hyperfocused on ensuring that everyone is okay! I want my children to feel happy, safe and comforted knowing they are taken care of because I follow them everywhere they go.

Think about the last time you did something kind for someone you love--or for a stranger! What was your motivation? Was it to get something out of it in return?

If the answer to that question is a resounding "yes," it's time to take a step back and reflect. Transactional relationships are never going to be fulfilling for you.

You should do things for others because you love them, and for that reason alone. THAT is, and always has been My will.

It Starts With You

Often, frustrations with unconditional love are actually just internal battles. I designed each of my children with the power to love unconditionally because I designed them all in my image.

Therefore, if you are struggling with unconditional love, you may simply need to look inward!

Reflect on these words today